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I heard about this book and got really interested, so I went to the store and asked to see the book. It took a while but the clerk eventually found it. To my disappointment, it was sealed and could not be opened unless I paid for it. I was upset and wondered why I should have to pay so much for a book that I couldn’t look into first.

Looking for What? Looking for Who?

We rush; we get frantic, paranoid, and insecure. We forget who we are and choose to exist just to quench the poking thoughts of those who feel we should be married by now. So we jump the gun – we look for a partner without knowing the life that requires the partner.

I know You Lost It, But Don’t Lose You!

So she told me she lost her virginity years ago so it doesn’t really matter at this point. So I told her I lost some money from my account years ago so I now go about giving my account number to whoever I see because ‘it doesn’t really matter at this point.’

Sorry, Gotta Miss My Own Wedding!

I know the date is set, your girls have bought their dresses, the cake’s ordered, the hall’s paid for, the website’s up, 500 have already RSVP’D, your mama is so happy, he’s a good catch, but something still doesn’t feel right. If it doesn’t feel right at this moment, it won’t feel right after you cut the cake!

Before You Get Hitched!

I’m sure you’ve heard phrases like, ‘He’s the one’ or ‘I’ve found my soul mate.’ Ok, if that’s true, why are you looking for a way out from ‘the one?’ Don’t get me wrong, I believe in love and finding the ONE, but more so, I am a bigger believer in the path that leads you to the ONE. You’ll come to realize that as individuals, we have more control over the path we take than the actual destination. Most times, the path has a way of revealing what the eventual destination will be like. You must understand that there is only one ONE, and that ONE is YOU. Until you become the one, this process of finding the other one may lead to quite a number of errors, and in some cases, fatal errors.

Five Mistakes Women Make!

But the first mistake was not yours. You were born into a world that didn’t even give you the chance – the chance to be who you really are without any pressure or expectation. From day one you were unconsciously groomed from childhood to be an acceptable accessory to a man’s life. You were constantly made conscious of a false milestone that suggested your value was based upon a man finding you worthy to be his, instead of being made aware of who you are by virtue of your own unique existence. Your worth as a woman was reduced to two things; being a wife and your ability to bear a child – and in some cultures, you had to bear the right type of child. And if per chance you failed in one of these areas, you were nobody, no one – you were nothing.

‘The Book’

I heard about this book and got really interested, so I went to the store and asked to see the book. It took a while but the clerk eventually found it. To my disappointment, it was sealed and could not be opened unless I paid for it. I was upset and wondered why I should have to pay so much for a book that I couldn’t look into first.

Before You Get Hitched!

I’m sure you’ve heard phrases like, ‘He’s the one’ or ‘I’ve found my soul mate.’ Ok, if that’s true, why are you looking for a way out from ‘the one?’ Don’t get me wrong, I believe in love and finding the ONE, but more so, I am a bigger believer in the path that leads you to the ONE. You’ll come to realize that as individuals, we have more control over the path we take than the actual destination. Most times, the path has a way of revealing what the eventual destination will be like. You must understand that there is only one ONE, and that ONE is YOU. Until you become the one, this process of finding the other one may lead to quite a number of errors, and in some cases, fatal errors.

Five Mistakes Women Make!

But the first mistake was not yours. You were born into a world that didn’t even give you the chance – the chance to be who you really are without any pressure or expectation. From day one you were unconsciously groomed from childhood to be an acceptable accessory to a man’s life. You were constantly made conscious of a false milestone that suggested your value was based upon a man finding you worthy to be his, instead of being made aware of who you are by virtue of your own unique existence. Your worth as a woman was reduced to two things; being a wife and your ability to bear a child – and in some cultures, you had to bear the right type of child. And if per chance you failed in one of these areas, you were nobody, no one – you were nothing.

I know You Lost It, But Don’t Lose You!

So she told me she lost her virginity years ago so it doesn’t really matter at this point. So I told her I lost some money from my account years ago so I now go about giving my account number to whoever I see because ‘it doesn’t really matter at this point.’

Sorry, Gotta Miss My Own Wedding!

I know the date is set, your girls have bought their dresses, the cake’s ordered, the hall’s paid for, the website’s up, 500 have already RSVP’D, your mama is so happy, he’s a good catch, but something still doesn’t feel right. If it doesn’t feel right at this moment, it won’t feel right after you cut the cake!

Before You Get Hitched!

I’m sure you’ve heard phrases like, ‘He’s the one’ or ‘I’ve found my soul mate.’ Ok, if that’s true, why are you looking for a way out from ‘the one?’ Don’t get me wrong, I believe in love and finding the ONE, but more so, I am a bigger believer in the path that leads you to the ONE. You’ll come to realize that as individuals, we have more control over the path we take than the actual destination. Most times, the path has a way of revealing what the eventual destination will be like. You must understand that there is only one ONE, and that ONE is YOU. Until you become the one, this process of finding the other one may lead to quite a number of errors, and in some cases, fatal errors.

Five Mistakes Women Make!

But the first mistake was not yours. You were born into a world that didn’t even give you the chance – the chance to be who you really are without any pressure or expectation. From day one you were unconsciously groomed from childhood to be an acceptable accessory to a man’s life. You were constantly made conscious of a false milestone that suggested your value was based upon a man finding you worthy to be his, instead of being made aware of who you are by virtue of your own unique existence. Your worth as a woman was reduced to two things; being a wife and your ability to bear a child – and in some cultures, you had to bear the right type of child. And if per chance you failed in one of these areas, you were nobody, no one – you were nothing.

‘The Book’

I heard about this book and got really interested, so I went to the store and asked to see the book. It took a while but the clerk eventually found it. To my disappointment, it was sealed and could not be opened unless I paid for it. I was upset and wondered why I should have to pay so much for a book that I couldn’t look into first.

Looking for What? Looking for Who?

We rush; we get frantic, paranoid, and insecure. We forget who we are and choose to exist just to quench the poking thoughts of those who feel we should be married by now. So we jump the gun – we look for a partner without knowing the life that requires the partner.

Sorry, Gotta Miss My Own Wedding!

I know the date is set, your girls have bought their dresses, the cake’s ordered, the hall’s paid for, the website’s up, 500 have already RSVP’D, your mama is so happy, he’s a good catch, but something still doesn’t feel right. If it doesn’t feel right at this moment, it won’t feel right after you cut the cake!

I know You Lost It, But Don’t Lose You!

So she told me she lost her virginity years ago so it doesn’t really matter at this point. So I told her I lost some money from my account years ago so I now go about giving my account number to whoever I see because ‘it doesn’t really matter at this point.’



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